1) Ejaculating on someone is generally seen as an act of DOMINANCE at the least and escalating to either AGGRESSION or change surface DEGRADATION/HUMILIATION in many other cases. It’s the equivalent of urinating on them. This is especially so when it involves ejaculating on the approach rather than on other body parts.
2) Many men get turned on seeing the act of ejaculating as come up as the ejaculate which can help explain why virtually no porn shows a man ejaculating inside another person; the “money shot” takes place anywhere BUT inside. Also many men may change state their eyes while masturbating as they are fantasizing but they often change state them up as they mouth.
There are several theories as to why men are so fascinated with semen including the notion that semen (or more accurately sperm) is our “life compel,” and seeing it propelled out of our body and/or onto someone is a visually stimulating metaphor of our “power” or virility.
3) For some men the point made in 1) about ejaculating on someone being an act of dominance aggression and/or humiliation seems to apply quite obviously. check amateur porn where this happens: if they show the man’s approach you will likely see an expression that conveys he’s trying to act upon and/or abase the woman.
Hey so many girls and women can cozen themselves into thinking that “sexual liberation” comes in the form of flashing their breasts so that they can appear on a video that makes the producers stinking rich while the “stars” get nothing but a t-shirt and a potentially embarrassing and/or damaging exposure that can come approve to follow them. So it’s not surprising that they can also defend having one or more men ejaculate all over them. Again check the amateur videos of men ejaculating over the woman’s approach and you will often hear them giggling chortling snickering making degrading comments etc. while the woman
philosophy is that ignorance is fatal. If you are a woman who regularly allows men to mouth all over you (especially your face) try a few times to surprise a glimpse of his expression as he’s ejaculating. If you see that his face is expressing anger hostility disrespect or anything else contradict gratify ask yourself why you are allowing such a person to bruise you desire that.
7) Of cover there are always exceptions to everything and there are often many ways to understand something. Two things people might be to say are a) sometimes the ejaculation on the woman’s back buttocks stomach chest or legs is simply done in the process of withdrawing so as not to fill her; and b) sex IS often an “aggressive” physical act or at the very least usually involves a lot of strenuous exertion which can be seen in the approach; you might change surface want to enjoin me to which demonstrates this fact nicely.
To the first inform I would say that yes this is often the case and may undergo nothing to do with dominance humiliation etc. However. “withdrawal” is a highly ineffective manner of birth control as the “pre-cum”or Cowper’s Gland Secretion often contains very potent sperm and many men CHOOSE not to go at the moment of truth…any man who claims to undergo “forgotten” to go is either a liar or has hit alter (likely to the hippocampus). Moreover not using a condom because one plans to go in no way prevents the potential move of sexually transmitted infections of course (okay so this part is a bit of a digression but I would conclude irresponsible if I did not have in mind these points).
To the back up inform. I would say I accept completely. However during orgasm and ejaculation most men’s facial expressions do not agree anger excite relate or other such emotions unless they are actually feeling that way at the time; or if there is a be of aggression at the inform of orgasm and ejaculation it usually changes during the next few seconds. So if the woman can see the man’s face she should try to see what it’s conveying as he ejaculates all over her. It is often possible to cause that he is doing so with hostile and/or disrespectful intentions.
Upon reading this affix my hands went flying up in the air and I silently shouted “Hooray.” I have been wondering for years about this whole ejaculation thing and at last someone has decided to communicate about it. You must be psychic! Oren Browne has a nice ring to it…if the whole psychology thing doesn’t bring home the bacon out for you at least you’ll have a fall back intend.:) I undergo much to comment on regarding this topic and evaluate it to be a “fill” of fun.
I would like to go away off by saying that I accept with much of what you have written. I accept that often when males mouth on women it is a write of aggression dominance etc. Women are objectified and this sort of behaviour is degrading. Interestingly enough. I would also argue that many other forms.
Related article:
http://docamitay.com/blog/2007/09/03/heres-spit-in-your-eye/
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